“ Failure is not the real END, but it is the REAL beginning of success ”

We know that there are many quotes in this world, like as quotes of famous people,such as Napoleon Hill, Soren Kierkegaard,etc. I am sure that every people has a quote that make it be a rule of their life. I also have quote, it is “ failure is not the real END, but it is the REAL beginning of success “. It means that if you fail, you don’t give up to reach your dream or your success, but you should make in your mindset that failure is the real beginning of your success. If you fail, you must still try and try,and also force yourself until you get your dream or you are successful.

I have some experience that relate to this quote. In elementary school, junior high school, until senior high school, I often join many competitions. But at the first when I join that competitions in elementary school, I am not to be a winner, I fail. But from my failure I don’t give up. I study hard and I always try and try until I am successful and be a winner in the competitions. I am very happy when I can be a winner and at that time I realize that if you want what do you want, you must get it with your effort. It means you must be active, always try and try to each the opportunity, and never give up if you fail.

I believe that everyone has a dream, has an idea, and they want to get it. But when you attempt to reach your dream, sometime in the middle of your way to reach your dream, you will meet something that we called “ failure “. And most of people will give up and don’t want again to force themself to reach their dream. This is a wrong thinking, because what? Because if you fail,it means that you will be near with your success. Failure will teach you in the future which one is good, which one is bad, and which one is true which one is false,which one suitable with you which one do not. Without failure you will never know which one the best for you. When you fail, there are many persons who give you a correction or comments for what that you do. Eventhough, that is a bad comment. But you know that every comments that is given to you, may be it is good comment or bad comment, it is just for your progress. So after you receive comments, you will do better on your project and you can make a progress. Do you think so?

So, the last that I want to say failure is not everything, failure can not make you die, and failure is not the end, because failure is the real beginning of your success. That’s all depend on you. If you want to success, doing everything that you think it can make you success. So, never give up, keep trying, be active, and don’t be a waster time if you want to success. Thank you.

UNDERAGE MARRIAGE by Robi'atul Adawiyah

UNDERAGE MARRIAGE

Do you know?

In Indonesia there is a law that organizes about married. Based on that law, which is said, that if we want to get married, our own age must be 17 years old minimally, but in the reality there are many cases about underage marriage, like case SYEKH PUJI who got married with the girl (MARIA ULFA) who was still underage. Like this case, I think it also happens in many places in Indonesia.

Where is it?

Underage marriage still more happens in my hometown, in Rembang Regency, especially in my village ( in Bulu hamlet ). There are many girls who are still underage had got married with older man than them in Bulu hamlet. Their own age about 12-13 years old. When they graduated from elementary school , they are gotten married by their parents with the older man than them. Sometimes they are gotten married with the older man who is not loved by them. They just do what their parents want, so they get married without love.

Why it can be happened?

There are many possibilities, why the girls in Bulu hamlet do underage married.

1. Parents force
2. Wealth
3. To help out their parents burden
4. Their education stop
5. Environmental influence

I disagree with this case, why?

We know that they are still young, their age are still 12-13 years old , if they do underage marriage and they make sexual activity with their husband, it isn’t good for their sexual reproduction.

Based on healthy research, if sexual activity is done by young couple ( under 17 years old) it can give bad effects to their health, like cancer. So, it is very dangerous for their sexual reproduction.

Solution

In Indonesia, a law should really organizes about married, must be focused about  parameters of the age that explain the suitable age of human who can get married ( minimal 17 years old). If there are people don’t obey or break of this law, they will be given a punishment by government, like jail punishment.This punishment not just for the people who doing get married, but also for their parents or someone who force their children or their sister to get married.

Probably, from this punishment can give their parents an intimidated effect, so their children will not do underage marriage again.